[libc++] [P1518R2] Better CTAD behavior for containers with allocators.

P1518 does the following in C++23 but we'll just do it in C++17 as well:
- Stop requiring `Alloc` to be an allocator on some container-adaptor deduction guides
- Stop deducing from `Allocator` on some sequence container constructors
- Stop deducing from `Allocator` on some other container constructors (libc++ already did this)

The affected constructors are the "allocator-extended" versions of
constructors where the non-allocator arguments are already sufficient
to deduce the allocator type. For example,

    std::pmr::vector<int> v1;
    std::vector v2(v1, std::pmr::new_delete_resource());
    std::stack s2(v1, std::pmr::new_delete_resource());

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D97742