[x86][lvi][seses] Use SESES at O0 for LVI mitigation

Use SESES as the fallback at O0 where the optimized LVI pass isn't desired due
to its effect on build times at O0.

I updated the LVI tests since this changes the code gen for the tests touched in the parent revision.

This is a follow up to the comments I made here: https://reviews.llvm.org/D80964

Hopefully we can continue the discussion here.

Also updated SESES to handle LFENCE instructions properly instead of adding
redundant LFENCEs. In particular, 1) no longer add LFENCE if the current
instruction being processed is an LFENCE and 2) no longer add LFENCE if the
instruction right before the instruction being processed is an LFENCE

Reviewed By: sconstab

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D82037