IR: Drop metadata references more aggressively during teardown

Sometimes teardown happens before the debug info graph is complete
(e.g., when clang throws an error).  In that case, `MDNode`s will still
have RAUW, so deleting constants that the `MDNode`s point at will be
relatively expensive -- it'll cause re-uniquing all up the chain (what
I've been referring to as "teardown madness").

So, drop references *before* deleting constants.  We need to drop a few
more references now: the metadata side of the metadata/value bridges
needs to be dropped off the cliff along with the rest of it (previously,
the bridges were cleaned before we did anything with the `MDNode`s).

There's no real functionality change here -- state before and after
`LLVMContextImpl::~LLVMContextImpl()` is unchanged -- so no testcase.

llvm-svn: 226044