[IndVarSimply] Fix assert/release build difference.

In builds with assertions enabled (!NDEBUG), IndVarSimplify does an
additional query to ScalarEvolution which may change future SCEV queries
since it fills the internal cache differently. The result is actually
only used with the -verify-indvars command line option. We fix the issue
by only calling SE->getBackedgeTakenCount(L) if -verify-indvars is
enabled such that only -verify-indvars shows the behavior, but not debug
builds themselves. Also add a remark to the description of
-verify-indvars about this behavior.

Fixes llvm.org/PR44815

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D74810