[X86][SSE] isTargetShuffleEquivalent - ensure shuffle inputs are the correct size.

Preliminary patch for the next stage of PR45974 - we don't want to be creating 'padded' vectors on-the-fly at all in combineX86ShufflesRecursively, and only pad the source inputs if we have a definite match inside combineX86ShuffleChain.

This means that the inputs to combineX86ShuffleChain might soon be smaller than the final root value type, so we should ensure that isTargetShuffleEquivalent only matches with the inputs if they are the correct size.