[NFC][RemoveDIs] Use iterators over inst-pointers when using IRBuilder

This patch adds a two-argument SetInsertPoint method to IRBuilder that
takes a block/iterator instead of an instruction, and updates many call
sites to use it. The motivating reason for doing this is given here [0],
we'd like to pass around more information about the position of debug-info
in the iterator object. That necessitates passing iterators around most of
the time.

[0] https://discourse.llvm.org/t/rfc-instruction-api-changes-needed-to-eliminate-debug-intrinsics-from-ir/68939

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D152468