[InstCombine] Rename worklist methods; NFC

This renames Worklist.AddDeferred() to Worklist.add() and
Worklist.Add() to Worklist.push(). The intention here is that
Worklist.add() should be the go-to method for explicit worklist
management, while the raw Worklist.push() is mostly for
InstCombine internals. I will then migrate uses of Worklist.push()
to Worklist.add() in followup changes.

As suggested by spatel on D73411 I'm also changing the remaining
method names to lowercase first character, in line with current
coding standards.

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D73745