[lldb] [DWARF-5] Be lazier about loading .dwo files

This change makes sure that DwarfUnit does not load a .dwo file until
necessary. I also take advantage of DWARF 5's guarantee that the first
support file is also the primary file to make it possible to create
a compile unit without loading the .dwo file.

Review By: jankratochvil, dblaikie

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D100299