Let clang-cl support CUDA/HIP (#68921)

clang-cl is a driver mode that accepts options of MSVC cl.exe as a
drop-in replacement for cl.exe. Currently clang-cl accepts mixed clang
style options and cl style options. To let clang-cl accept a clang-style
option, just need to add visibility CLOption to that option.

Currently nvcc can pass cl style options to cl.exe, which allows nvcc to
compile C++ and CUDA programs with mixed nvcc and cl style options. On
the other hand, clang cannot use mixed clang and cl style options to
compile CUDA/HIP programs.

This patch add visibility CLOption to options needed to compile CUDA/HIP
programs. This allows clang-cl to compile CUDA/HIP programs with mixed
clang and cl style options.