[compiler-rt][hwasan] Introduce MaybeDieIfNoTaggingAbi()

Use a helper function to print an error message and die in the case
flags()->fail_without_syscall_abi is set.

Because x86 doesn't have `sysctl abi.tagged_addr_disabled`, do not
mention it in the error message for non-Android runtime.

Depends on D132543

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D132544