[InstCombine] make code more flexible with lambda; NFC

I couldn't tell from svn history when these checks were added,
but it pre-dates the split of instcombine into its own directory
at rL92459.

The motivation for changing the check is partly shown by the
code in PR34724:
https://bugs.llvm.org/show_bug.cgi?id=34724

There are also existing regression tests for SLPVectorizer with
sequences of extract+insert that are likely assumed to become
shuffles by the vectorizer cost models.

llvm-svn: 344854