Concentrate memref descriptor manipulation logic in one place

Memref descriptor is becoming increasingly complex. Memrefs are manipulated by
multiple standard instructions, each of which has a non-trivial lowering to the
LLVM dialect. This leads to verbose code that manipulates the descriptors
exposing the internals of insert/extractelement opreations. Implement a wrapper
class that contains a memref descriptor and provides semantically named methods
that build the primitive IR operations instead.

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