[mlir] switch bufferization to use strided layout attribute

Bufferization already makes the assumption that buffers pass function
boundaries in the strided form and uses the corresponding affine map layouts.
Switch it to use the recently introduced strided layout instead to avoid
unnecessary casts when bufferizing further operations to the memref dialect
counterparts that now largely rely on the strided layout attribute.

Depends On D133947

Reviewed By: nicolasvasilache

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D133951