[ExpandMemcmp] rename variables and add hook to override pref for number of loads per block; NFC

The preference only applies to 'memcmp() == 0' expansion, so try to make that clearer.
x86 will likely benefit by increasing the default value from '1' to '2' as seen in PR33325:
https://bugs.llvm.org/show_bug.cgi?id=33325
...so that is the planned follow-up to this clean-up step.

llvm-svn: 321756