Add wildcard support to all update_*_test_checks.py scripts (PR37500)

We can already update multiple files in each update call, this extends it to work with wildcards as well in the same way as update_mca_test_checks.py (to support shells that won't do this for us - windows command prompt etc.)

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D58817

llvm-svn: 355386