[SLP]Improve vectorization of phi nodes by trying wider vectors.

Try to improve vectorization of the PHI nodes by trying to vectorize
similar instructions at the size of the widest possible vectors, then
aggregating with compatible type PHIs and trying to vectoriza again and
only if this failed, try smaller sizes of the vector factors for
compatible PHI nodes. This restores performance of several benchmarks
after tuning of the fp/int conversion instructions costs.

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D108740