Extend vector.outerproduct with an optional 3rd argument

This CL adds an optional third argument to the vector.outerproduct instruction.
When such a third argument is specified, it is added to the result of the outerproduct and  is lowered to FMA intrinsic when the lowering supports it.

In the future, we can add an attribute on the `vector.outerproduct` instruction to modify the operations for which to emit code (e.g. "+/*", "max/+", "min/+", "log/exp" ...).

This CL additionally performs minor cleanups in the vector lowering and adds tests to improve coverage.

This has been independently verified to result in proper fma instructions for haswell as follows.

Input:
```
func @outerproduct_add(%arg0: vector<17xf32>, %arg1: vector<8xf32>, %arg2: vector<17x8xf32>) -> vector<17x8xf32> {
  %2 = vector.outerproduct %arg0, %arg1, %arg2 : vector<17xf32>, vector<8xf32>
  return %2 : vector<17x8xf32>
}
}
```

Command:
```
mlir-opt vector-to-llvm.mlir -vector-lower-to-llvm-dialect --disable-pass-threading | mlir-opt -lower-to-cfg -lower-to-llvm | mlir-translate --mlir-to-llvmir | opt -O3 | llc -O3 -march=x86-64 -mcpu=haswell -mattr=fma,avx2
```

Output:
```
outerproduct_add:                       # @outerproduct_add
# %bb.0:
        ...
        vmovaps 112(%rbp), %ymm8
        vbroadcastss    %xmm0, %ymm0
        ...
        vbroadcastss    64(%rbp), %ymm15
        vfmadd213ps     144(%rbp), %ymm8, %ymm0 # ymm0 = (ymm8 * ymm0) + mem
        ...
        vfmadd213ps     400(%rbp), %ymm8, %ymm9 # ymm9 = (ymm8 * ymm9) + mem
        ...
```
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