[ODRHash] Improve handling of hash values

Calculating the hash in Sema::ActOnTagFinishDefinition could happen before
all sub-Decls were parsed or processed, which would produce the wrong hash
value.  Change to calculating the hash on the first use and storing the value
instead.  Also, avoid using the macros that were only for Boolean fields and
use an explicit checker during the DefintionData merge.  No functional change,
but was this blocking other ODRHash patches.

llvm-svn: 299989