[ARM] Distribute post-inc for Thumb2 sign/zero extending loads/stores

This adds sign/zero extending scalar loads/stores to the MVE
instructions added in D77813, allowing us to create up more post-inc
instructions. These are comparatively simple, compared to LDR/STR (which
may be better turned into an LDRD/LDM), but still require some additions
over MVE instructions. Because there are i12 and i8 variants of the
offset loads/stores dealing with different signs, we may need to convert
an i12 address to a i8 negative instruction. t2LDRBi12 can also be
shrunk to a tLDRi under the right conditions, so we need to be careful
with codesize too.

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D78625