[RISCV] Support -target-abi at the MC layer and for codegen

This patch adds proper handling of -target-abi, as accepted by llvm-mc and
llc. Lowering (codegen) for the hard-float ABIs will follow in a subsequent
patch. However, this patch does add MC layer support for the hard float and
RVE ABIs (emission of the appropriate ELF flags
https://github.com/riscv/riscv-elf-psabi-doc/blob/master/riscv-elf.md#-file-header).

ABI parsing must be shared between codegen and the MC layer, so we add
computeTargetABI to RISCVUtils. A warning will be printed if an invalid or
unrecognized ABI is given.

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D59023

llvm-svn: 355771