[lld][WebAssembly] Set memory limits correctly for PIC + shared memory

Don't early return from layoutMemory in PIC mode before we have set the
memory limits.

This matters in particular with shared-memory + PIC because shared
memories require maximum size.

Secondly, when we need a maximum, but the user does not supply one,
default to MAX_INT rather than 0 (defaulting to zero is completely
useless and means that building with -shared didn't previously work at
all without --maximum-memory, because zero is never big enough).

This is part of an ongoing effort to enable dynamic linking with
threads in emscripten.

See https://github.com/emscripten-core/emscripten/issues/3494

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D92528