[mlir][VectorOps] Expose and use llvm.intrin.fma*

Summary:
This revision exposes the portable `llvm.fma` intrinsic in LLVMOps and uses it
in lieu of `llvm.fmuladd` when lowering the `vector.outerproduct` op to LLVM.
This guarantees proper `fma` instructions will be emitted if the target ISA
supports it.

`llvm.fmuladd` does not have this guarantee in its semantics, despite evidence
that the proper x86 instructions are emitted.

For more details, see https://llvm.org/docs/LangRef.html#llvm-fmuladd-intrinsic.

Reviewers: ftynse, aartbik, dcaballe, fhahn

Reviewed By: aartbik

Subscribers: mehdi_amini, rriddle, jpienaar, burmako, shauheen, antiagainst, arpith-jacob, mgester, lucyrfox, liufengdb, Joonsoo, llvm-commits

Tags: #llvm

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D74219