[mlir][EDSC] Almost NFC - Refactor and untangle EDSC dependencies

This CL refactors EDSCs to layer them better and break unnecessary
dependencies. After this refactoring, the top-level EDSC target only
depends on IR but not on Dialects anymore and each dialect has its
own EDSC directory.

This simplifies the layering and breaks cyclic dependencies.
In particular, the declarative builder + folder are made explicit and
are now confined to Linalg.

As the refactoring occurred, certain classes and abstractions that were not
paying for themselves have been removed.

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D74302