[X86] Add X86ISD::SUBV_BROADCAST_LOAD and begin removing X86ISD::SUBV_BROADCAST (PR38969)

Subvector broadcasts are only load instructions, yet X86ISD::SUBV_BROADCAST treats them more generally, requiring a lot of fallback tablegen patterns.

This initial patch replaces constant vector lowering inside lowerBuildVectorAsBroadcast with direct X86ISD::SUBV_BROADCAST_LOAD loads which helps us merge a number of equivalent loads/broadcasts.

As well as general plumbing/analysis additions for SUBV_BROADCAST_LOAD, I needed to wrap SelectionDAG::makeEquivalentMemoryOrdering so it can handle result chains from non generic LoadSDNode nodes.

Later patches will continue to replace X86ISD::SUBV_BROADCAST usage.

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D92645