[LLD][COFF] Cover usage of LLD-as-a-library in tests

In lit tests, we run each LLD invocation twice (LLD_IN_TEST=2), without shutting down the process in-between. This ensures a full cleanup is properly done between runs.
Only active for the COFF driver for now. Other drivers still use LLD_IN_TEST=1 which executes just one iteration with full cleanup, like before.
When the environment variable LLD_IN_TEST is unset, a shortcut is taken, only one iteration is executed, no cleanup for faster exit, like before.
A public API, lld::safeLldMain(), is also available when using LLD as a library.

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D70378