[lld-macho] Use export trie instead of symtab when linking against dylibs

Summary:
This allows us to link against stripped dylibs. Moreover, it's simply
more correct: The symbol table includes symbols that the dylib uses but
doesn't export.

This temporarily regresses our ability to do lazy symbol binding because
dyld_stub_binder isn't in libSystem's export trie. Rather, it is in one
of the sub-libraries libSystem re-exports. (This doesn't affect our
tests since we are mocking out dyld_stub_binder there.) A follow-up diff
will address this by adding support for sub-libraries.

Depends on D79114.

Reviewers: ruiu, pcc, MaskRay, smeenai, alexshap, gkm, Ktwu, christylee

Subscribers: mgorny, llvm-commits

Tags: #llvm

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D79226