[libomptarget] Require LLVM source tree to build libomptarget

This is to permit reliably #including files from the LLVM tree in libomptarget,
as an improvement on the copy and paste that is currently in use. See D87841
for the first example of removing duplication given this new requirement.

The weekly openmp dev call reached consensus on this approach. See also D87841
for some alternatives that were considered. In the future, we may want to
introduce a new top level repo for shared constants, or start using the ADT
library within openmp.

This will break sufficiently exotic build systems, trivial fixes as below.

Building libomptarget as part of the monorepo will continue to work.
If openmp is built separately, it now requires a cmake macro indicating
where to find the LLVM source tree.

If openmp is built separately, without the llvm source tree already on disk,
the build machine will need a copy of a subset of the llvm source tree and
the cmake macro indicating where it is.

Reviewed By: protze.joachim

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D89426

[openmp][libomptarget] Include header from LLVM source tree

The change is to the amdgpu plugin so is unlikely to break anything.

The point of contention is whether libomptarget can depend on LLVM.
A community discussion was cautiously not opposed yesterday.

This introduces a compile time dependency on the LLVM source tree, in this case
expressed as skipping the building of the plugin if LLVM_MAIN_INCLUDE_DIR is not
set. One the source files will #include llvm/Frontend/OpenMP/OMPGridValues.h,
instead of copy&pasting the numbers across.

For users that download the monorepo, the llvm tree is already on disk. This will
inconvenience users who download only the openmp source as a tar, as they would
now also have to download (at least a file or two) from the llvm source, if they want
to build the parts of the openmp project that (post this patch) depend on llvm.

There was interest expressed in going further - using llvm tools as part of
building libomp, or linking against llvm libraries. That seems less clear cut
an improvement and worthy of further discussion. This patch seeks only to change
policy to support openmp depending on the llvm source tree. Including in the
other direction, or using libraries / tools etc, are purposefully out of scope.

Reviewers are a best guess at interested parties, please feel free to add others

Reviewed By: jdoerfert

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D87841

[libomptarget] Implement host plugin for amdgpu

Replacement for D71384. Primary difference is inlining the dependency on atmi
followed by extensive simplification and bugfixes. This is the latest version
from https://github.com/ROCm-Developer-Tools/amd-llvm-project/tree/aomp12 with
minor patches and a rename from hsa to amdgpu, on the basis that this can't be
used by other implementations of hsa without additional work.

This will not build unless the ROCM_DIR variable is passed so won't break other
builds. That variable is used to locate two amdgpu specific libraries that ship
as part of rocm:
libhsakmt at https://github.com/RadeonOpenCompute/ROCT-Thunk-Interface
libhsa-runtime64 at https://github.com/RadeonOpenCompute/ROCR-Runtime
These libraries build from source. The build scripts in those repos are for
shared libraries, but can be adapted to statically link both into this plugin.

There are caveats.
- This works well enough to run various tests and benchmarks, and will be used
  to support the current clang bring up
- It is adequately thread safe for the above but there will be races remaining
- It is not stylistically correct for llvm, though has had clang-format run
- It has suboptimal memory management and locking strategies
- The debug printing / error handling is inconsistent

I would like to contribute this pretty much as-is and then improve it in-tree.
This would be advantagous because the aomp12 branch that was in use for fixing
this codebase has just been joined with the amd internal rocm dev process.

Reviewed By: jdoerfert

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D85742