Properly compute triviality for explicitly-defaulted or deleted special members.

Remove pre-standard restriction on explicitly-defaulted copy constructors with
'incorrect' parameter types, and instead just make those special members
non-trivial as the standard requires.

This required making CXXRecordDecl correctly handle classes which have both a
trivial and a non-trivial special member of the same kind.

This also fixes PR13217 by reimplementing DiagnoseNontrivial in terms of the
new triviality computation technology.

llvm-svn: 169667