[lit] Parse command-line options from LIT_OPTS

Similar to `FILECHECK_OPTS` for FileCheck, `LIT_OPTS` makes it easy to
adjust lit behavior when running the test suite via ninja.  For
example:

```
$ LIT_OPTS='--time-tests -vv --filter=threadprivate' \
  ninja check-clang-openmp
```

Reviewed By: probinson

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D64135

llvm-svn: 365313