[MemCpyOpt] Work around PR54682

As discussed on https://github.com/llvm/llvm-project/issues/54682,
MemorySSA currently has a bug when computing the clobber of calls
that access loop-varying locations. I think a "proper" fix for this
on the MemorySSA side might be non-trivial, but we can easily work
around this in MemCpyOpt:

Currently, MemCpyOpt uses a location-less getClobberingMemoryAccess()
call to find a clobber on either the src or dest location, and then
refines it for the src and dest clobber. This was intended as an
optimization, as the location-less API is cached, while the
location-affected APIs are not.

However, I don't think this really makes a difference in practice,
because I don't think anything will use the cached clobbers on
those calls later anyway. On CTMark, this patch seems to be very
mildly positive actually.

So I think this is a reasonable way to avoid the problem for now,
though MemorySSA should also get a fix.

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D122911