[clang][patch] Inclusive language, modify filename SanitizerBlacklist.h to NoSanitizeList.h

This patch responds to a comment from @vitalybuka in D96203: suggestion to
do the change incrementally, and start by modifying this file name. I modified
the file name and made the other changes that follow from that rename.

Reviewers: vitalybuka, echristo, MaskRay, jansvoboda11, aaron.ballman

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D96974