[clang][deps] NFC: Handle `DependencyOutputOptions` only once

There's no need to pass `DependencyOutputOptions` to each call of `handleFileDependency`, since the options don't ever change.

This patch adds new `handleDependencyOutputOpts` method to the `DependencyConsumer` interface and the dependency scanner uses it to report the options only once.

Reviewed By: dexonsmith

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D104104