[IR] make -warn-frame-size into a module attr

-Wframe-larger-than= is an interesting warning; we can't know the frame
size until PrologueEpilogueInsertion (PEI); very late in the compilation
pipeline.

-Wframe-larger-than= was propagated through CC1 as an -mllvm flag, then
was a cl::opt in LLVM's PEI pass; this meant it was dropped during LTO
and needed to be re-specified via -plugin-opt.

Instead, make it part of the IR proper as a module level attribute,
similar to D103048. Introduce -fwarn-stack-size CC1 option.

Reviewed By: rsmith, qcolombet

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D103928